My Ate Gayle --I always looked at her as a role model with good intentions and ethics.. Her daughter, my niece is a clever little cookie and I could tell you where she got it from. On her 30-umpth birthday this year, she put this as her facebook status. 

"+30 years = understanding what crows feet is; a broken heart doesn't kill you; a circle of best girlfriends is gold; having kids is the true meaning of love & fatigue; FB, & DVR are the blackhole of time; Marry your best friend; Lakers are still champs & kindergarten held key life lessons:"Be kind, say thank you, apologize, share, pray, wash your hands, don't lie, respect your elders, & don't hold your pee".